So it's been about a year and a half since my last post, and the reason is simple: I had a kid. So, any spare time I had was spent -- hahahahahaha spare time. That. is. hilarious.
There's no way I can really retrace what has happened in the last year or so, so I'll start with today. I'll start with shoes.
My son is 15 months old now, and the only word he can say clearly is "shoes." Admittedly, this is adorable, but it's also a source of confusion. Most of my conversations with my son sound something like this:
Me: Jackson, do you want a banana for breakfast?
Me: I don't understand. You have shoes on. Do you want toast?
Jackson: SHOES! SHOES!
Me: Maybe you want soybeans and steak!
Jackson: SHHHHOOOEESS! This is usually said as he tries to fall out of the highchair, reaching for the blueberries I'm eating on my plate.
If I let him down, having watched him stuff a bowlful of roasted carrots down his pants, he'll march into the pantry and point directly at the Cheerios box. "Cheese" he says, turning to me. I test him and give him cheese rather than cereal, which he smashes between his tiny fingers and rubs into the floor. Exasperated with my ignorance, he points to the Cheerios again and says louder, "CHEESE!" He sounds a lot like a punk kid talking to an elderly person who refuses to get a hearing aid. I get a vision of life 60 years from now. If I don't respond quickly, he usually mutters "Dee-snatch" and gives up. I'm not sure what "dee-snatch" is, but I'm guessing he deserves a swat on the backside for saying it.
This routine repeats itself often in my household. My kid has reached a point where he knows what I'm asking but he can't say what he wants or needs. This causes him so much frustration that he picks up his fat little feet and stomps around the dining room in a circle for a while, only to come to a halt before me in the kitchen, his hands behind his back like a really tiny diplomat, waiting. Andrew calls him the "midget tyrant."
We recently taught him baby sign language for "all done" which has kept him from launching his plate across the room to signal he is finished with his meal. This came in handy at the end of a 10 hour day at Disney when, totally exhausted, Jackson turned to us as we waited to ride a Mickey Train and waved his tiny hands in the air close to his face. He couldn't speak but I finally got what he was trying to say. "All done," he was saying. "All done with this heat, this crowd, these tired moms and dads and babies." "Me too, kid," I said. And it was nice, for both of us, to be understood.